Family Feud: Melania Trump Aide Slams Ivana Trump’s ‘Self-Serving Noise’. Will the real first lady please stand up? Melania Trump's spokeswoman assailed Ivana Trump on Monday as a bitter ex after Ivana quipped in a television interview that she was the real first lady since she was the president's first wife. "I have the direct number to White House," Ivana boasted in a Monday interview on ABC's "Good Morning America" about her relationship with the president. "But I’m not really going to call him there because Melania is there, and I don’t want to cause any kind of jealousy or something like that, because I’m basically first Trump wife, OK? I’m first lady, OK?" Melania Trump's aide took Ivana to task for the quip, calling her an attention-seeking ex-wife trying to sell books. “Mrs. Trump has made the White House a home for Barron and the president. She loves living in Washington, D.C., and is honored by her role as first la